I'm the author of the new parenting blog, Lost Parent Diary. In mid-January 2008, my wife and I learned we were expecting our first child. This news has already lead to a series of changes in our lives. It was at this point that I decided to start a parenting blog in the hopes of becoming a better parent myself.

A few weeks ago, I realized this project and my blog is up for the world to see. In it, I hope to address issues effecting both new and experienced parents alike. I'm writing to you as a parent and blogger for advice and support.

Recently, I put up a post entitled, "dad = persona non grata in delivery room". The post discusses the opinion of Dr Michel Odent, a renowned obstetrician who strongly believes that a father should NOT be present at the birth of his child. Dr. Odent argues that the delivery room is no place for a husband. Not only is the father's presence unneeded, it also is a hinderance to his wife's labor. As a result, a husband unwittingly increases the length and pain of the labor as well as the need for intervention. In addition, it also may cause negative psychological effects on the father. (more ...)

As a future father, I am in the process of making a decision on this issue. But, I could sure use some help.

I would really appreciate your opinion on this issue. What did you and your partner? What would you recommend others to do? I ask that you post your opinion in the comments section of the post so that others may benefit from your opinion as well.

- Andre

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