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Submitted by community on Thu, 26/11/2009 - 9:00pm
After years of holding down steady jobs many fathers these days take a leap and start their own business. Why do they do it? Perhaps because having your own business allows you to control your destiny, get paid what you're really worth, work flexible hours, do what you've always been passionate about and so on. However these days many dads also have a desire to spend much more time with their Children. Self employment, on the face of it, offers fathers flexibility and time to spend with families and children. The reality for many people in business is different though. Long hours, being at the disposal of clients, cash flow problems and the pressure of keeping the business running. Time becomes a precious resource and often there are conflicting priorities between business and family. It takes a quite a guy to take on all these responsibilities and be 100% fully engaged whenever they spend time with their children. Talk about being a great dad at the end of a 12 hour day with 4 hours of admin work to do once the children have gone to bed. How do you do this? You suck it up. This is what fathers do, and that's why fathers are the great people they are. Great dads find creative ways to be effective at work and keep up their motivation and energy levels to be there for the kids as well. To fulfil the important job of being a great dad there are 3 things you can do in you business to make things easier: 1. Automate the business as much as possible – what tasks can be done automatically (e.g. online order processing). Outsource where possible Also - remind yourself why you started this business, what you wanted to achieve and what you love about it. If you are not enjoying most aspects of your business life over long periods you may want to rethink your decision to start your own business. Whilst having your own business is an important aspect of life it is also just a means to an end. So don't lose sight of your end goal and find time for the family ... for your children you are the coolest dad on the planet! Jeff Smith
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Great article with sound
Great article with sound advice. Just one comment ... please dads it is also important to remember your wife/partner. Especially as you're also a role model for your children in how relationships work. It is wonderful to see dads wanting to spend more time with their children.
I really like this blog.
I really like this blog. Please continue the great work. Regards!!!
Hi Jeff, Man, that is rough
Hi Jeff,
Man, that is rough advice-- to just suck it up and get the work done, however creatively. But I'd have to say you are 100% right.
Just look at Keith Wilcox, a stay-at-home dad with 2 boys. He wakes up at 6 am every morning after going to bed after 1 am, just so he can get his blogging done before the boys wake up. Every day. Talk about being a professional blogger for a job-- not exactly cake! But a job is a job, whether at home or not.
I hope you write more about stay at home dads and business.
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