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Submitted by community on Thu, 03/07/2008 - 11:20pm.
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Have you realized the most important thing in a young girl’s life? It is her FATHER!

A father carves the way for their daughter’s lives, and when a father strengthens and rebuilds his bond with his daughter, it shapes her life and his for the better. But how ever much a father loves his daughter if he doesn’t realize what a girl child usually expects of him, his relationship would be strained.

Girls seek for a sense of protection and safety from their fathers. They feel that fathers should be available when needed. The real value of a father in a girl’s life is that it is from fathers that girls learn about males in the world; ... read more >>

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Submitted by eric on Sun, 11/05/2008 - 9:10am.
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A Happy Mother's Day to all the women that made us boys and to the women that turned us into father's

And a very special Mother's Day to all the first time mother's, hope you enjoy your special day, that includes our partners.

Warm Regards

- The DIYFather team

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Submitted by community on Sat, 08/03/2008 - 6:51pm.
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Expectant fathers have a lot of decisions to make when getting ready for the arrival of their first or new child. Many people create checklists to try and help them prepare, but it is impossible to make ready for every situation or need. There are many decisions during the pregnancy that dads really care about expressing an opinion but some are avoided at all costs.

Here are Five Decisions Expectant Fathers Tend to Avoid:

1. Choice of doctor or hospital - we're not the ones who need to feel comfortable being poked, probed and examined, so why should our opinion matter?

2. Room decor or bedding set - dads want kids to have cool rooms, but the only things we really care about when it comes to decor are how much it costs and the amount of work it will be for us to paint and set-up all of the furniture.

3. Formula or breastfed baby - as long as we can be involved in feeding the baby in some way, we don't really care where the milk comes from.

4. Natural or 'pain relieved' delivery - some dads may quietly think they have a strong position on this leading up to the big day; however, that quickly changes when they get in the delivery room with a screaming mom. In most cases, dads understand that they aren't the ones pushing the baby out, so they really don't have a say about epidurals or pain medications anyway. ... read more >>

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Submitted by community on Wed, 13/02/2008 - 8:48pm.
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Welcome to All Pro Dad's 10 Ways to be a Better Dad online courses.
Continuing with number Seven:

"Respect your children's mother"

Click on above link to view a video clip that, once viewed, will provide you a basic outline on how to be a better father.

Thanks for participating and please share your success stories with us as you put these 10 Ways to be a Better Dad principles to work in your family.

Keyword: "Hi Mum"

Respect with words
Respect with time
Respect with agreement

Posted with permission from www.allprodad.com



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Submitted by eric on Wed, 06/02/2008 - 9:01pm.
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I have just watched a must see for all expecting and new fathers.

“Seven Steps to Baby Bliss” from www.dadstheword.com is not only very practical for expectant and new fathers it is also pretty funny too.

I felt it was totally aimed at fathers as the target audience, but I also believe it would have great benefit watching this DVD with your partner.

The role of the dad is highlighted says the back cover, and I completely agree.

In 28 minutes the “Seven Steps to Baby Bliss” DVD shows you how to:
* Settle a crying baby
* Bathing a baby
* Step by step guide and tips on nappy changing for both baby girls and baby boys
* Feeding a baby
* Baby massage
* Dressing your baby
* And SIDS prevention
* Relationship after baby

from www.dadstheword.com ... read more >>

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Submitted by community on Mon, 21/01/2008 - 8:39pm.
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Posted with permission from www.vision.org

Of all the difficulties single mothers face, the most distressing one may involve coming to grips with the current understanding about fathers. Fatherhood is no longer seen as being merely a biological or economic role for men. But as research continues to reinforce the fact that men make unique and vital contributions to their children’s lives, there is no getting around the reality that some families must function without them. When this happens, must single mothers and their children be shortchanged, or can a single mother raise happy, healthy children? According to the Gurian Institute’s training director, Kathy Stevens, they certainly can—and she should know. Stevens, who raised two sons as a single mother, has coauthored several books on children’s needs. She recently spoke to Vision about what a single mother can do to make up for a missing father in her child's life. ... read more >>

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Submitted by community on Mon, 21/01/2008 - 8:29pm.
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Posted with permission from familymatters.vision.org

Does family research stigmatize single mothers and their children?

Before we finish talking about singles, it seems appropriate to consider the particular challenges of single parents. If I revert to using the term "single mothers" more often than not, it's only because single parents tend to be mothers more often than not.

The most common accusations made against "family restorationists" have to do with political and economic concerns. For instance, in an essay titled "Politics of Family Structure," author and family scholar Arlene Skolnik says that—although there are some "family restorationists" who aren't trying to introduce drastic legislation—most of them: ... read more >>

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Submitted by community on Thu, 10/01/2008 - 9:29pm.
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Medical News Today
8 January 2008

'Dad is Just As Good As Me', Say 7 Out Of 10 Mums

Seven out of ten mums (68%) believe dads are as skilled at parenting as they are, yet the father role is seen as still secondary by much of society, according to new ICM research launched by the Fatherhood Institute today.

The new institute says involving fathers has a major impact on child welfare yet they spend on average a month less with their children than mums every year, mainly because of unsocial hours and inflexible working. It is calling for a shake up of parental leave, all family professionals such as midwives and teachers to actively involve fathers, and more done to ensure dads sign birth certificates, in line with international best practice. ... read more >>

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Submitted by scott on Fri, 07/12/2007 - 10:56pm.
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This is from a Catholic newspaper of which I believe it’s important to hear both sides of the story. I haven’t personally had any dealings with an abortion from a fathers point of view, but what I do believe in is making decisions that are right for you and your partner at the time. If this is committing something that other people feel very strongly against such as abortion – as this can be a very heated topic then so be it.

If you have been through abortion as a male please let me know what your experiences were like!!

- Scott

“Forgotten piece of the equation”
San Francisco conference to examine effects of abortion on men

A conference that promotes itself as the “first to focus on the effects of abortion on men” will be held Nov. 28-29 at St. Mary’s Cathedral in San Francisco. ... read more >>

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Submitted by stefan on Tue, 23/10/2007 - 4:12pm.
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I've just come across "Burnt Chop Syndrome", which I had no idea existed as a phrase for something I have observed for years with my own mum. As a vegetarian it's all dutch to me of course but BCS refers to a tendency of mums to leave the worst for last (for herself) to make sure the rest of the family is alright. Well - the expression "burnt chops" is a bit dated, isn't it. For starters all chops these days look burnt anyway (given the high water content of mass produced meat). So we need a new name for the phenomenon. ... read more >>

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